I was telling you yesterday how Rupinder attracted what she emitted and I attracted what I emitted. "You get what you give" is the law of cause and effect. Every effect has a cause. What we need to understand however is how the law is going to work for us individually. We also need to find out why don't we always get the expected results. If the the law doesn't fail then why does it still fail for some and not for others? It has been beautifully explained in MKS. I will try to simplify in my own words.
Our main focus always is on the effects. Whenever we want some change in our lives we habitually focus on the effects not only that we also make all efforts possible to change those effects. But the law states that effects are the results of a cause. How then do we not understand where to start? Because we are not aware of it till we haven't learned how to. Our mind is not trained to do so. To focus on cause instead of effects. Let me elaborate with Rupinder's example.
Rupinder was upset that was the effect and there was a cause to it which she didn't know at that moment of time. Even I also didn't know it at first. She became more upset as she was only focusing on the effect. That made her get upset with kids and me at home. All she was doing internally was focusing on what had happened (effect) totally ignoring that this effect is the result of a cause. It was only yesterday evening we found out the real cause.And when we went in to the depth of where it came from everything became clear. I will explain, actually she had helped a poor patient in her hospital. She had provided him with some minor things. The desire to help was strong but the real "feeling" of helping that way was not good to her. That "feeling" was bad feeling to her. Here it comes, "thoughts become feelings" and these feelings attract similar feelings to it. Bingo the patient was stopped from taking the stuff like that and it created a havoc. Rupinder felt that it were because of her, which were her previous "feelings". But the attendant to the patient had actually violated the office rules by entering into Operation theater premises and collect the stuff. That's all had happened nothing more. But Rupinder was taken aback, why? Just because of what she was already giving to the Universe had come back to her. It made her get upset with security staff and it went on till yesterday morning until I had sent her my "feelings" through the sms.
It is our feelings which attract similar feelings and we get the desired or not so desired results. The feelings of anger,lack, fear etc are very strong feelings and they work very quickly and they last long with us. They in turn attract the same feelings to us. We are so helpless that we don't have to think twice to believe on them we simply believe that something wrong is going to happen. Our believing that strongly gets us the results. But when we dream about something worthwhile something which we wanted since long we are unable to believe. We do believe in the beginning when the desire is aroused but it starts fading slowly when we don't see immediate results. The belief gets dimmer and dimmer. That is why we need to learn to visualize what we want and keep the picture alive in our minds even if we don't see any effects. This takes exercise similar to that of a physical body. It can be learned however.
We will always get what we give. Next time you want something then expect only what you want not what you don't want. To know how we can do it i.e., how to expect what I want we need to go further to find out the secret. And the next part is to always know the truth of the particular situation you are into. I will explain it next time......................
